One of the silent relationship killers is when the partner becomes a nurse first and a lover second.
The Storyline: The “civilian” who thinks they can handle the lifestyle. The Reality: This is the highest-risk relationship. The non-medical partner eventually resents the canceled plans, the PTSD, and the feeling of being second to the hospital. However, when it works, it is the most beautiful romantic storyline of all. The civilian provides a lifeline to normalcy. They remind the doctor that there is a world outside of MRIs and mortality. The secret ingredient? The civilian must have an equally demanding passion (art, law, trade) so they aren't waiting by the door. One of the silent relationship killers is when
Chronic pain, fatigue, or medication side effects can decimate a sex life. Many couples grieve this silently. They remind the doctor that there is a